How to be "Boss of Self"
Feb 21, 2025
I always find it interesting to observe what patterns show up through the week in one on one sessions. We are all having our own unique journeys, and yet there is always a bit of a theme with the same balances that test up from one client to the next. I love that.
It reminds me that amidst all of our own personal life story we are all so interconnected to a collective experience.
When those patterns become so clear, I'd like to share them with you too. It's very likely that you will be experiencing similar thoughts and feelings on a deep level and may find some benefit from what has been testing up in clinic ready to be shifted.
I'm hosting a complimentary live workshop next week and so that I can teach you all about it. It's happening Tuesday Feb 25th at 9:00am AEST.
I'll give you the punchline, and then I'll give you the method:
Here's the simplified bottom line -
"I am ready to create X in my life, but I don't know how to get there."
The X being everything from romance and babies to job opportunities and physical healing.
The goal is always to find some way of crossing the unknown territory of where we are now to where we want to be.
So how do we do that using the tools of energy and human behaviour?
There are infinite ways for you to cross that bridge but I'll show you one that works and the one that I use in clinic.
I call it R.E.S.T.
R = READY
E = ENERGETICS
S = SYSTEMS
T = TIME
Ready = Before anything in our bodies can shift we need to be truly ready. Being ready requires us first to feel desire. We have to deeply want a new outcome to an old problem. It is the first springboard into the sequence of inner growth. Then we have to weed through our willingness as we can often have conflicting desires. For example I might desire healing my gut but I might also desire eating processed sugar and soft drinks that I know aggravate my conditions. So we strengthen our will and tonify what we are willing for and are no longer willing for. Following that we bring in any and all necessary resources and tools to be fully able to make this change on a practical level.
Energetics = Roughly 80% of the work happens here in the energy body. This is the coordination between how you are feeling, what you are thinking, who you are being and what you are doing. It's embodiment of your entire life story, and aligning to a version of you that is more true than the version we are currently operating as. This happens in 5 distinct stages as we remove blockages and increase energy the physical body, the breath body, thoughts, emotions and tie that back to our true essence. When our energy is clear, honest and open the rest flows with little effort.
Systems = The other 20% happens here. These are the practical day to day rituals and sacred habits that we cultivate very intentionally. This is where we design "what we're doing" to become a reflection of "who we are being" internally. It can work from the inside out and from the outside in. Meaning that we can create external systems that help pull us back into alignment with the energetic work we've done. Most of us fall back into old energetic patterns of thoughts and feelings because we don't know how to build systems that support who we are becoming. The outside has to match the inside, and when it does... magic happens at a rapid rate.
Time = The final piece in the puzzle is allowing time. Abraham Hicks once taught that spiritual growth is like boiling water. So often we get a pot, fill it, then turn on the hob and immediately say, "It's not boiling! This doesn't work!" When all we need to do in that moment is sit back and wait a few minutes for the water to boil. Divine timing is everything and so often what we are calling in requires us to keep showing up through repetition and to trust that when we release control of the outcome, something beyond our wildest dreams has space to come into creation.
I'm going to deep dive into all sections of this method with you live next Tuesday at 9:00am AEST.
Grab your seat here:
I want you to have the skills to:
- Boost your energy
- Remove blockages in your energy field
- Remove pain from your body
- Create reliable systems that help you create everything you're calling in from the universe
If you want a dose of fresh concepts to turn over in your own knowing, go check out my evolution course
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